You can find an example of why Tam got spooked HERE on Roberta's blog.
Dude has been asked to stay away and not comment....
Does it anyway.
Won't go away. Won't stop.
Denies being a stalker, but exhibits the exact behavior defining a stalker.
Not happy with what he has done to Tam, he hasta go onto her roommate's blog to make a statement since Tam's blog is shut down. Thinks he has a right to be heard.
What an ass. In an older time, he'd be beaten or run out of town on a rail.
Now he can't be, lest the person doing it be jailed.
(Notice that while he talks big, he won't tell anyone his place of business, his address, and note also that he posts anonymously. Telling that innit?)
ETA: apparently Tam is not the first person he has stalked over the internet(see comment #1) and driven off.